Do you have prejudices about the escort profession? You don't know what is the daily life of all these women who work in sex? So read this article to learn more!
As you most likely know, escorting is a bit like modeling. It is a path that is not widely used, which is becoming commonplace today because it gives many advantages while bringing together certain disadvantages.
What is certain is that the world of escort girls is a world apart, which allows these beautiful women to have an alternative way of life, and to live comfortably while doing what they love.
The escort job is still a “taboo” subject, even if it is less and less so. These women who rock in this world are sometimes students, sometimes employees who want to make ends meet, sometimes curious people...
Discover the daily life of Marie, a 24-year-old escort girl.
(Mary is a pseudonymous first name)
A taboo topic?
When you announce to those around you that you work in the sex industry, whether in pornography or direct sexual services by being an escort Caen, there are a priori.
And that's quite normal. Unfortunately, in the friendly circle, it can pass, even if some of your friends might find it weird:
“Ah, you are an escort girl? But that means you have to sleep with wrinkled-skinned old people, right?”
"But it's only based on sex?"
The clichés are (very) numerous, so Marie dismantles them. She thought, too, that she should sleep with people she didn't want… But that's not the job of an escort.
She can choose her clients, according to her tastes, preferences, and her availability. If she doesn't want to work on that day, then she can't go on a date.
Unfortunately, she never talks about it to her family, otherwise, she will suffer shocked reactions.
How does one come to become an escort?
Marie explains to us that being an escort is not a “job she dreamed of”. On the other hand, the promise is enticing: appointments with men, in magnificent restaurants, to earn a living.
Inevitably… Not everyone would say no. Very often, as in Marie's journey, very beautiful slim women, with an advantageous physique, will be interested in this profession during their studies.
Inevitably, between living an ecclesiastical life (a monk's life) during the day, revising and not going out too much, and in the evening, going to upscale restaurants, the contrast to something to make you want.
Finally, it is somewhat the promise of a higher standard of living, and a better quality of life, that pushes some women to leap.
What is the real clientele of an escort?
So now, does becoming an escort mean sleeping with old men? Well, the answer is no. Most of Marie's clients are between 35 and 40 years old.
According to her, they are not looking for sexual performance, but rather a certain tenderness, a closeness, a feminine sweetness. They want massages, and cuddles and are nice.
In general, she refuses the youngest, who will often be the most inclined to act badly according to her.
Small surprising remark: 75% of Marie's customers are in couples, even married for some. On good terms…
Clients, mostly respectful, find Marie's contact on escort ads on the net, or directly on her independent escort site. In any case, its conditions are listed on these two sites.
She tells us that she sometimes takes real pleasure in satisfying the fantasies of these men and that they are not strange for a penny. To describe in one word the typical clientele of an escort girl, they are men who don't have time for a classic relationship...
But who still wants to have sex, or simply enjoy the presence of a woman.
How are things going with co-workers?
We can imagine it, but the career of an escort girl is rather solitary. Inevitably, it's a profession that is similar to a freelancer who provides services, so we're talking about someone who decides his schedule, and who has no accounts to render.
It is not easy to bond in this profession, because becoming an escort also means working in the shadows. But she has friends, who they talk to and who she hangs out with frequently… At least they can talk to each other about their working days without any problems!
At the legal and legal level, it is not complicated?
Of course, it will depend on the country. But let's start with the question of money first. The escort girls, including Marie, earn a very good living. There isn't a salary, but now she can afford not to work for a week if she chooses.
As long as she has a clientele, it is her choice that counts. As for taxes, prized by escort ad sites, you should know that they are quite small, with percentages that decrease according to the popularity of an escort, or even her overall score (customer reviews ).
As for the legal framework, you should know that in Switzerland, for example, the profession of escort is legal and is therefore regulated by law. You risk nothing, and you are protected by social status.
There is also an association, the Strass (sex work union) which can help escorts who are just starting, to find out what is or is not feasible, how to declare their income, etc.
How to protect yourself?
In this profession, the golden rule according to Marie is to be lucid:
“We will not come across Brad Pitt who will invite us to the Ritz, but rather on men with normal physique, who invite you to Formula 1.
For the proposals of sex without protection, it is necessary to refuse. Your working tool is your body, and you mustn't make it stick”.