How can tantric sex help you (and your partner) access a whole new dimension of pleasure and sexual connection?

We have all heard this term: tantric sex. But do you know what it is? For those who have heard of it from afar, it is commonly thought that these are only slightly fanciful positions (and impossible to hold for normal humans). And they are also positions that are used to practice sex for hours and hours.

In reality, it is much more complex (and interesting) than that, and that has many benefits that I will present to you later ... And that will not make you an insane person, no sect will try to recruit you afterward. The benefits are not only purely sexual, tantric sex will also allow you to connect more deeply spiritually and emotionally with your partner.

What is tantric sex?

Overall, the received ideas are not wrong: Tantric sex is a slow and meditative form of sexuality.

The word “tantric” comes from the Sanskrit language and denotes an extension of consciousness. According to Tantric philosophy, we are all interconnected by our internal energy: every living being on this planet, human or not.

The goal of these erotic practices is to fully immerse yourself in a journey and an almost introspective experience, to finally better understand and apprehend the sensations of the body. It is a practice that can be useful to you even from a personal point of view: if you are with a Montpellier escort girl, then you can test the slightly different methods of tantric sex, to give you more pleasure.

The idea is to transfer sexual energy through our body, to circulate it to heal, transform, and ultimately transcend the sensations of the body. Thanks to this holistic approach, which takes into account the body as much as the mind and the connection between individuals, sensuality becomes the path to a much more intimate experience of the present moment, and of sexuality. Given that each interaction we have costs us energy, we can think that for each movement there is a circulation of energy ... and this is why the body is an instrument, which will allow this energy to circulate ( in the same way as for martial arts for example). Even this energy is not only destructive: it can be used to connect deeply with one's consciousness, and with another person.

Tantrism is the art of circulating one's sexual energy through the body, and of releasing it to better connect to the other.

How to have a tantric sex session?

Since it's quite different from classic sex, you have to understand in-depth how it works. For that, here are some preparations that will allow you to be ready and comfortable before your session.

Read, seek, learn

The more information you have on the subject, the more comfortable and able you will be to give the best of yourself.

Make enough time

It is in the slowness and the complete involvement and without moderation that tantric sex shines the most. Sometimes it can go on for hours on end. So obviously: prepare enough time for a session, to fully benefit from the experience.

Prepare your mind

Concentrating at the moment can be difficult when you have your head in the handlebars, or just because you are anxious by nature. Yoga meditation or masturbation can help you (before tantric sex) have a clearer, less confused, and sharper state of mind.

Create a deep connection with each other

For that, I advise you to take a classic position: you in front of your partner with your legs crossed in Lotus. Use your hands to feel your partner, and to better connect to their energy. You can do this naked, or in clothing, whichever you prefer. For a little more spice, and to work your sense of touch, an erotic massage allows to increase the bond and the sexual energy a little more. Tantric massage combined with sex can make the experience even stronger. If you maintain eye contact throughout the session, it will further increase the intimacy and connection you have with each other. It is also imperative to harmonize your breaths, with deep breaths, and deep breaths.

Remember that this is supposed to be meditative, so there is no need to rush things: it serves above all to explore the sensations and to better enjoy and live the present moment ... Often, successful tantric sex is synonymous with a long and delicious adventure for both partners ...

The best positions to practice meditative sex

There are several positions suitable for tantric sex, of which here are the best suggestions for combining comfort with intimacy:

The Lotus (or Yab-Yum)

The lotus position is pretty classic: you sit in a lotus shape with your legs crossed, while the other partner sits on your legs, wrapping theirs around your hips. For the rest: synchronize your breaths by being very close to the other ... or you can directly stimulate each of the other's genitals etc ...

Butterfly

In a room or a place where your partner can lie down ... While you are lying down, the person lying down places their legs on the shoulders of the person who is standing. The one lying down slightly tilted his pelvis upwards, so that the lower backs are lifted from the surface of the bed, and that the hips touch those of partner who is standing. Thus, the latter can use his hands to direct and touch the hips of the lying one, which allows having a perfect angle of penetration.

The ultimate goal of tantric sex

You will understand: it is not the cure for all your ailments, and it is not a solution in any way. But on the other hand, it's a whole new way of looking at your relationship with your partner, whether sexually or spiritually. Ultimately, the goal is not only ejaculation but above all to experience pleasure at its peak during orgasm. The intensity of tantric sex aims to lead to orgasms that stir your soul.