Have you recently heard of edging and orgasm control? But you don't know if it suits you?
Then this article is made for you!
It will help you discover this discipline, which is more and more topical. Today, for both young and middle-aged generations, sex life is all about porn, one-night stands, and quick, sloppy sex.
However, slowing down the pace of your sex life, like your sexual intercourse, can give you much more pleasure and make you discover new sensations. You will be able to discover a whole new world of sensations still unknown to you!
At the very beginning of this journey towards orgasm mastery, it is quite difficult (and counter-intuitive) to tell yourself that you will stop sexual stimulation before orgasm.
This “game” is more difficult for men because frustration is different between the two sexes: male hormones are very different from female hormones…
The next time you have sex or masturbate, try moving on to another activity in the middle. To accumulate this frustration which, little by little, will be familiar to you, and will give you many benefits, such as better control of orgasm and a more powerful feeling of enjoyment.
Edging: definition
“Edging” is a practice that will consist of stopping sexual stimulation just when you reach orgasm, so “on the verge” of orgasm. This is where the expression “edging” comes from, which means “at the edge of”.
After that, we come to start the stimulation again and repeat the operation until we are ready to enjoy it. By doing this, we will accumulate sexual energy caused by frustration, and this generates a more intense orgasm that you will be able to experience with our Avignon escorts, who are magnificent women.
The benefits of edging
This practice, therefore, has several advantages, for both men and women. These benefits can improve your personal sex life, as well as of a couple.
1. Increased sexual energy
The sexual energy can be materialized by the vital force. It is an impulse, therefore a desire to procreate, which is anchored in our genes (except for medical conditions). It is therefore essential to our well-being, and it is a component of our mood, of our daily energy.
When you control your orgasm, you learn to focus on your internal energy. People who include sperm retention in their tantra practice mostly have more determination than before when it comes to carrying out projects or having clearer goals.
2. More sexual desire
Since your energy will increase, and you can now control the release of your sexual energy, then your libido will be higher. You will therefore have an increased sexual desire (libido).
This will not only allow you to be more enduring but also to get closer to your partner more intimately.
3. A decrease in performance anxiety
For all men who find it difficult to let go while making love. For those who can't let go, and only think about the performance expected of them. For those who put enormous pressure on their shoulders.
It is not necessary to think about all that, since making love with someone is above all a connection between two beings. The practice of edging allows people to free themselves from the feeling of anxiety related to the expected performance of sexual intercourse because it allows them to control the orgasm.
You will learn to better know your body, your limits, what excites you, what slows you down, etc. Nothing better than premature ejaculation or sexual anxiety.
4. Increase in testosterone
According to scientific studies, testosterone levels increase significantly in men who do not masturbate for a while and even more in those who practice seminal retention.
Higher testosterone levels explain many of the advantages men have over each other, namely more strength, physical power, a deeper voice, thicker hair, and an increased sense of power.
practice edging
Edging for masturbation is, as we said, quite difficult (at least at first). It is not always possible immediately after starting the practice and therefore may require some practice time.
Here are some edging techniques that will help you develop your skills.
The pelvic floor muscles
To make it easier to control your orgasms, you will need to tighten your pelvic floor muscles. Thus, if you have very developed pelvic muscles, it will be easier for you to practice edging.
And if you've ever tried Kegel exercises, this is exactly the kind of exercise for you. Otherwise, you can do your research on the internet to see what it is.
Be aware, however, that Kegel exercises are like fitness or bodybuilding, that is to say, that they will require some time of regular practice before having a noticeable impact on your sexual practices.
For women, tools like yoni eggs (or jade eggs) can help strengthen the pelvic floor.
ejaculation blockage
The so-called “manual” blockage consists of pinching the tip of your penis when you feel that you are about to ejaculate, to prevent orgasm from occurring. When you feel close to orgasm, firmly pinch the tip of the penis, until you no longer feel the trigger of orgasm.
Do this for 30 seconds, and it will be enough to stop the orgasm. Once your semen is blocked, your body will naturally reabsorb it, which will prevent you from releasing sexual energy.
Breathing techniques
Breathing can also help you to master orgasm, and to distribute your energy harmoniously in your body so that it does not release your sexual energy easily.
Deep belly breaths can slow your arousal, and make your orgasm longer and more enjoyable. Similarly, controlled breathing calms the excitations of the brain, as well as anxiety, anger, or panic attacks. You can use the breath to harness almost any form of powerful, uncontrolled emotion.
Feel free to practice all of these little techniques to increase your orgasm control, once you're in bed!