BDSM is a bit of a world in its own right. It is a mystery that we dare not think too much ... But sometimes we come to it, little by little, slowly but surely. After years of living as a couple, or quite simply of active sex, you can start to get bored or to turn to more "adult", more mature pleasures. Who has never felt pleasure in holding back for a while before being able to finally undress his conquest? The ecstasy of feeling the desire rise and grow in oneself, mixed with the frustration of not being able to access one's desire, that only massively increases the excitement. We will see together the best accessories to practice this "discipline" properly and in the best possible way.
Safety first!
A word of warning: BDSM can be a bit fuzzy: when does pain outweigh pleasure? When to stop These questions will come up (if you don't know your partner very well), so it's important to do some research before you practice. The best thing to do: go to sex shops, or on the internet (for the more cautious), and do your research. For the security aspect, here are a few things: Consent must be clear. The limits must be fixed (by a word to give, the famous code, or safe word). Don't be on drugs or alcohol, it could make your gambling sessions more dangerous. Be honest and communicative. Learn to use your toys correctly, and wash them correctly (hygiene is very important).escorts in Lyon. I now give you the best accessories for your games!
The softest and most famous: the headband
In satin, or with a t-shirt, the principle remains the same (comfort on the other hand not). Blindfold your partner, whether for roleplay, to stimulate the imagination for a fetish, or simply to deprive the person of one of his senses, the blindfold is multifunctional. He can have a real interest, so that the person does not see anything at all, to limit his furtive glances. From my experience, it allows you to be totally and fully focused on the sexual act, the sensations, and the pleasure that comes from it. The little extra: it also helps you sleep better.
The thong whip:
This one is already a little trickier. It lets you feel pleasure and pain at the same time ... Especially for people who actually like it. This is not the case for everyone: sometimes, you have a conquest that will tell you that she likes to feel dominated and that she wants you to do yours. Sometimes it's just the other way around ... Anyway, I suggest you take one with soft leather straps, to start. The whip is used to inflict pain but combined with the blindfold, for example, it can be used to give a feeling of both fear and excitement.
The magic ball (or gag ball)
If you want to feel pleasure in peace, this item is for you. Joking aside, if you like to be submissive during sex, this is the perfect accessory for complete mouth blocking. Most are hypoallergenic and odorless, so completely harmless and comfortable. It will serve to put you in all your states, to further increase the thrill of pleasure that runs through you from head to toe ... and the anxiety that goes with it. For dominant people, you'll love this accessory too: see the person you love "choke" silenced and squeal while you do them some good. Important: define a signal, and not a safe word if you are using it.
The classic: the strings
The art of Shibari (we will talk about it in more detail next time) is largely enabled thanks to this accessory. If you like to restrict movement, hang up, curl up your partner, and tie him up with strong ropes, this is the perfect accessory. A must, but you can also opt for handcuffs or silk ties (for more eroticism in the sensations). You can be as creative as you want, which is why I would recommend strings instead. In addition, if you have an artist side in your soul, you can compose your own image with the body of your partner ... Interesting, for the most motivated among you.
The collar and the leash
Once again, a well-known accessory… But a little more specific. Indeed, here, we are heading more towards a sort of fantasy of a master-slave relationship. In a roleplay, that would really be an important asset for example. It can also show off your partner well because most often these necklaces are quite pretty. They will also guarantee you a simpler game, where you can quickly show the other who is the boss, and submit your partner to your desires.
La spreader bar
The spreader bar is used to… spread. Rather self-explanatory. This object allows you, while you practice BDSM, to try more daring, extravagant, and naughty positions. Most often, these bars are velcro, to ensure first class comfort. Sometimes there are even built-in ties - to keep your feet in place. There are even versions with 2 ties at the ends… and two in the middle (for the hands). Enough to imagine a good variety of really naughty and extravagant positions.
The other positive aspect: the positions allowed thanks to the spreader bar will also help oral sex, deep penetration, stimulation of the G-spot, etc ... So a great asset for your craziest BDSM sessions.