Want to know how to practice the spoon sex position? And you don't know what the particular advantages of this position are?
Then this article is made for you!
The spoon is this position to make love without too much effort, and even when tired. At least, that's the cliché that often comes up when you think of this sexual position.
This is indeed the ideal position when you are about to fall asleep and still want to cuddle closely, or when you wake up with naughty desires...
Even though this position is already used and has proven its worth, it is true that it still harbors subtleties and unknown advantages, as well as ways to make spooning more intense. This is what we are going to talk about in this article.
One underrated detail: spoon sex gets better with micro-changes. A small hip shift or a lifted top leg can change the whole feel.
What is spoon sex?
Quickly, spooning is a sexual position where both partners are lying on their side, one behind the other and looking in the same direction. In this position, the person behind penetrates the other.
The spoon, therefore, refers to the kitchen utensil, by its curved shape which is reminiscent of that of the two partners. This term also means that the person behind fits into the other person, who is in front.
Depending on the size of the people, the person in front can curl up on themselves, to have this curved spoon shape. Our Bordeaux escorts will appreciate this particular and intimate moment that is spoon sex.
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How to Spoon Love
This relaxing sexual position will allow the person behind to penetrate the other quite easily while having access to their sex with their hands. In addition, this position is also ideal for both vaginal penetration and anal penetration.
It can be done with the penis, but also with a sex toy, such as a dildo or a vibrator, and you can even stimulate your partner's clitoris and breasts with toys.
The person in front can also arch backward to gain more natural access to the nipples of the person behind or to stimulate their penis. In this way, the two people will be stimulated more intensely than with classic, straight penetration.
The key to enjoying spoon sex is to let yourself go in the moment, without necessarily thinking about performance and orgasm. An excellent way to do this is to let go, by putting slow and languorous back and forth, intended for your pleasure as much as that of your partner.
You will therefore be able to feel your partner's body against yours, the skin-to-skin friction, the sensation of the breath, and the moans of the other. These little noises are erotic, and will also let you know what you are doing well.
The angle of penetration of this position is not very deep, so you can always raise your top leg to vary the inclination, to penetrate more deeply.
Why do people like spoon sex?
There are so many reasons to enjoy spoon sex. But it's not just a relaxing, languid position. It has many advantages that one can only notice by practicing this position regularly and correctly.
The spoon position is great when you're sleepy and dozing off a bit. This is an ideal position when waking up or when sleeping since it allows the heart not to accelerate too much, and to relax your body.
Why Spoon Sex Is Very Intimate
In addition, it is deeply intimate and offers a lot of contact between the bodies of the two people. The contact with the skin of the two partners is almost total, so you will be able to fully access the body of the other, from the feet to the head.
The erogenous zones are also very easy to access in this position. This position is not likely to rush the other, because it provides very soft sensations, which are no less intense. This position is also a natural hugging position.
Another little-known fact: this position can feel easier for a smaller, voluptuous, or even pregnant partner because of the side-lying angle. The belly and curves may feel less in the way because you’re accessing your partner’s sex from behind.
But this position also allows good sexual intensity, both in terms of the angle and the depth of the thrusts. So you can also decide to go fast and hard if that's what your partner values the most.
In addition, it allows both partners to properly control their bodies and the sexual relationship in general because the maneuver is easy. You will be able to move your hips freely and so will your partner.
This also means that each of the lovers will be able to adjust their hips, play with them, and try sometimes slow and sometimes fast movements, to modify the rhythm. It is therefore a very good way to reach orgasm. The G-spot is also easier to access in this position.
In fact, since the vagina of the person in front is tilted back slightly, you'll be able to maneuver your penis into contact with the G-spot much more easily by penetrating straight toward the inner wall of the vagina.
The couple benefits of spoon sex
Because this position is intimate, and it allows the two bodies to be really in contact with each other, it therefore allows a rapprochement of the couple. It may seem superficial, but this position is excellent for making love truly, with passion and love.
It allows you to infuse your love into the other, much more than something more animalistic and impersonal like the sexual position of the doggy style. This, therefore, has a rather surprising effect: the release of the love hormone, oxytocin.
Oxytocin is often linked to bonding and that “close” feeling — which is why spoon sex can feel like both intimacy and sex at the same time.
So, in addition to strengthening the emotional connection, the physical connection is also strengthened, whether through hugs or the general sense of relaxation.
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