Tastes and colors are very rarely discussed. We all have our preferences, in everyday life, as in sexuality. Here, we will not talk about changing your preferences ... but only accepting them. We are also going to break down the most common prejudices, to try to decipher the reality of the everyday world for shemales, and why it would be silly to deny it.
It's hard to make romantic encounters with (and for) trans people
It is rather difficult for trans people. Why? Because of several causes, which we will discuss a little below. But first, you have to know that trans people are like all of us. They are people of great sensitivity, very sensual in general (since he/they wanted to change sex), and who perfectly embody femininity or masculinity. Our trans-Paris escorts are a perfect example, and our “catalog” brings together the best people you can meet in the region. The services they offer are generally very varied.
Now, what is the error mentioned in the title?
Mistake # 1 that is made
It's just to exclude the idea of meeting trans people. Even if this is what you want, you think that it will bring its share of problems, that they are people with problems, etc… While it is precisely the opposite: they are people who make “the choice” to get better (being trans is not a choice), to realign with who they are on the inside. And that is precisely the problem: excluding these people is what makes it more difficult for them to live properly. It is more difficult to walk in the street (because we are afraid of the eyes of others, we do not know their reactions in advance). It's more difficult to find a job. Have you ever noticed that it is the troubled waters that bring together the most trans people? And yes, very often these people choose the middle of the night (nightclub, escorting). Precisely because it is in this kind of place or environment, where a trans person will be the most “accepted”. It's a cruel reality, but it won't necessarily stay true forever ...
Since, as we will see, mentalities are starting to change.
But for now, a mundane thing like crossing the street can quickly turn into a nightmare, depending on where you are: people's eyes can be insistent, even contemptuous. Even simple curiosity can be hurtful.
The biggest mistake is to be constantly judgmental.
Why are “the people” the most in your head?
People are so critical, and constantly think they know better than others. A lot of trans people want long-term relationships, which makes sense. And yet, it is extremely difficult for a trans woman. Much more than for other women. Because finding the right partner is already very difficult at the base. So when you are constantly being judged, try to imagine ... When people find out that a person is a transexual, they can become annoying, even completely disrespectful. Which is horrible, and that's just the consequence of a society in general. Public opinion does not matter: after all, those people who judge you are not the ones who will help you, who have helped you, and who are now helping you. Do whatever you want, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.
The societal factor… Or why society makes meetings with shemales (very) difficult
Now we are going to talk about the angry subject. Trans people in general have it tough. And it's a society that generates that (in large part). Society is not necessarily an organization or the State. From my point of view, it's more the people who make it difficult. First, as said previously: to each his own, and no one has to judge anything. That's not what will get things done anyway. We are each free to think, act and love differently.
A pretty horrible thing is that previous generations (our elders) don't necessarily know about this subject - and all the issues that go with it. So there is sometimes a lot of abuse: people who will allow themselves to criticize out loud, or simply people who look bad. However, that's not all… it can sometimes go much further.
So yes, dating trans people is difficult because people judge and not necessarily positively. And even if, let's say that a person meets someone trans and that they like it. So she may be able to deprive herself of this meeting or to go further, simply because of the gaze of others ...
But imagine: even your family rejects and judges you. Abuses of this kind are numerous: trans people who get kicked out of their homes, who commit suicide, who are beaten… The list is long and without exaggeration.
Society makes it possible to change things little by little every day
Today, public opinion is increasingly beginning to accept that people change their gender as something normal. And it is today, people's problems change, because of changes in society. So, people who feel bad about their “biological” sex want to change it, to embody what they are. Part of it has to do with the media. Newspapers, television, and even television series are writing more and more columns, series… In short, they devote more time to this subject. This not only makes it possible to make young people aware of the disorders that the discrimination of these people can cause but also: the more we talk about it, the more we find it normal, banal. If we integrate this into everyday life, then it becomes something that we are used to seeing.