Escort codes explained: abbreviations and common terms
Seeing escort codes like incall, outcall, roses, EV, or “extras” and feeling lost? You’re not alone. Escort site language is often abbreviated for speed, discretion, or habit—and the same term can mean slightly different things depending on the platform, country, and person.
This guide keeps it simple: the point is not to memorize every code, but to avoid misunderstandings. When in doubt, ask for a clear definition and confirm boundaries.
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Consent includes your right to change your mind and withdraw consent at any time.
Rule 1: don’t assume. Ask what a term means for that person.
Rule 2: keep messages clean and respectful. Clarity beats bravado.
Rule 3: confirm boundaries. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn.
Common escort codes explained
1) Incall / Outcall
Incall typically means the meeting happens at the provider’s place or a location chosen by them. Outcall typically means they travel to an agreed location (often a hotel). These terms are widely used in ads as shorthand.
2) LF / MF
Often read as Lady Friend / Male Friend. Sometimes it hints at an additional person or a “plus one” scenario—sometimes it’s just vague wording. Best move: ask what it means in practical terms.
3) “Roses”
In some ads, “roses” is used as a euphemism for money/payment rather than writing currency directly. People may also use 🌹 as a unit. The easiest way to avoid confusion is to ask: “How many 🌹 for the booking?”
4) Extra
Usually means an add-on outside the basic booking. If a profile lists a clear “no”, don’t push it as an extra—respect saves time and keeps the tone good.
5) EV / reviews
EV can mean “experience review” or a short feedback tag. Platforms use different systems, so confirm whether reviews exist and how they work.
6) Dress code
Dress code usually means a specific outfit or style request for an event, dinner, or a vibe. It can be a good sign of clear planning and expectations.
Terms that can be misunderstood
Some slang can refer to explicit adult practices or fetishes. Meanings can vary and people may use euphemisms. If you see a term you don’t know, ask for a clear definition and confirm boundaries—simple and respectful.
If a word feels vague, clarification prevents awkward moments.
Copy-paste message (clean)
“Hey! I’m new and I want to avoid misunderstandings. When you say incall/outcall and roses, what does that mean for you? And what are your boundaries?”
