The ultimate fantasy ... or the plane with three

Both men and women often have this fantasy in mind, yet it may be considered taboo by some people ... even today. If you want to bring a third person back into your lovemaking, or if you are single and want to participate in a unique group sex experience, here is what you need to know to make your dream come true.

women often have this fantasy in mind

A little history of this practice:

The arrival of the internet marked a huge turning point in sexual freedom. Now, rather calm people have discovered all kinds of fantasies (which they did not know until then), and we could get information via the internet, and even look for partners via the internet. This is the great power of this network. However, in the past, it's a different story. The threesome was considered a deviant practice ... And even today, it is clear that if you are an exclusive couple, for example, the only mention of this desire to find a third person in your duo can be. being rejected or even that can lead to (big) arguments, which is why we advise you to go and search among our Annemasse escorts: if you do not know which person to choose, then you will find here the most competent, the most qualified… and also the most interested people.

Anyway, we know, the threesome is a very common fantasy, especially among men. With the Internet and the abolition of certain taboos, everyone's sexual preferences are increasingly accepted, and finally, the majority understand that everyone does what they want with their body. Thus, in 2017, a study shows that it is 31% of women and 82% of men between 18 and 24 years old have already participated in a threesome.

How does it work (what we want and what we don't want):

For the very brief definition: the threesome, or threesome, it's just 3 people who are going to have sex with each other. The 3 can be single, or 2 people as a couple who invite a third person in their room. First, if you are in a relationship, here are some essential tips: again, communication is the key. If you are dying to finally realize your fantasy, even if you do not know how to broach the subject with your partner, you will necessarily have to go through the discussion stage.

Why? Simply, because the threesome is to want to share and share with someone else, so a non-exclusivity in the couple. If you don't know how to approach the subject, don't panic! Here's an idea: have an open conversation about sex with your partner. Ask him or her what she or he wants, listen, etc ... Then, bring the subject of sex outside of the relationship. Just ask your partner what he or she thinks about threesomes in general, then advise: let the conversation take its course! Finally, ask your partner how he or she would feel imagining integrating a third person inside your original duo: it is essential to listen to the other, and especially to be honest. about your wishes.

Even before choosing a partner, you can already establish rules and limits. Communicate your precise desires before and during the act. For example, "I don't want rimming" or "I don't like cunnilingus". You can also think upstream of any accessories, once again: according to your desires. Protection is essential and even more so when it is with someone you do not know in private.

The choice:

Si vous avez réussi à convaincre votre partenaire (ou si c’était gagné d’avance) félicitation! Maintenant, vous avez très probablement une question qui vous trotte dans la tête: est-ce que c’est mieux de trouver quelqu’un à intégrer à notre plan à trois: dans mon entourage, ou un(e) inconnu(e)? Comme souvent: ça dépend. Si vous ne voulez tester ça qu’une fois, c’est que vous êtes à la recherche d’un plan d’un soir. Donc il vaudra mieux, pour tester, faire appel à votre inventivité! Nous vous expliquons dans le paragraphe suivant, comment et où choisir. Pour ce qui est de l’autre option: vous cherchez un participant ou une participante régulière, alors vous pouvez hésiter entre les deux. Car, si vous prenez une connaissance: une question suivante peut émerger: le sexe à trois va-t-il influencer la relation que le couple a avec la troisième personne? (spoiler alert: oui). Et si le ménage à trois est régulier: on reste amis, ou alors on se lance dans une relation polyamoureuse? Ces questions peuvent être délicates… En tout cas ici: tout dépendra de vos désirs: vous chercher un plan régulier, ou un plan temporaire?

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The best techniques to find a partner:

When you're craving a real, long-term threesome, you'll turn to people you know (friends or acquaintances) instead. There this may lead to stories of jealousy. This is why, paradoxically, the search for an unknown person can be simpler: you do your own thing, and theoretically it's over right after. This is why we advise you to go to escorts, to make your work easier. There are also specialized websites and apps to find your third wheel of the carriage (and yes, it's not just Tinder in life!). We can quote Feeld, 3Way, or #Open. On other more traditional dating sites like OkCupid, you can launch searches by preferences, and therefore integrate this criterion directly into your profile.